Self Defense And Confidence

I have been hearing people that are experts in their field say “you have to dress for success!” Giving you the notion that if you do dress for success, you will be able to have much more success in whatever you do than not dressing for success and getting mediocre results.
I suppose there is some validity to that statement, for wearing a nice ensemble does seem to boost the mental. However, I am of the opinion that confidence emanates from the grounds of the mind. The garden of what lies between the ears is what must first be cultivated! If this garden is not tended to properly, it does not matter what drapes your shoulders.
I recall some years ago, before being married, my confidence level on a scale of one to ten, was right around 25. Picking up a family member from the airport, not bothering to dress for public viewing. I had mustard stain on a white tee shirt, wrinkled sweat pants, and slippers. I mean it was a sad sight. I saw someone from the car that I wanted to know better. I got out of the car, spoke to her, and to make a long story short, we exchanged numbers and the rest is history. I later found out she was most attracted to the confidence with which I spoke to her!
The same thing hold true for self-defense. I spend a great deal of time working some of the most timid people, taking them from the type that is afraid to look someone in the eye, to a confident person who is able to walk tall with shoulders back and head up. Self-defense is more about mental than anything else. Strengthening your mind will help you handle any self-defense situation!
Here is the bottom line, nothing can take the place of confidence! If you need help with building your confidence and self defense, we are here to help. Our motto is, “empowerment and a better life for all, through self-defense, and fitness!”

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They come in many different styles (metal, pointed, wood, etc.) and are great for helping boost confidence so you don’t become a victim.

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